Roland, we all are going to miss you so much. You were always in such an easygoing and joyous mood. I could not help but be a little happier in your presence. It is so sad that you were taken away so young and unexpectedly.
Gary, I know Roland’s passing is going to leave such a huge hole in your life. You both seemed so happy in each others presence and he was lucky to have found you as a partner; you guys had many wonderful years together.
Love you both,
J.C.
A special place to remember Roland and to remind Gary he is surrounded by love and support...
Monday, October 31, 2011
Sunday, October 30, 2011
Te extraniamos Roland...
Dear Roland,
We miss you so much...I was really looking to see you these holidays and joke around with your incredible sense of humor...
Big hugs and my deepest condolences to Gary and to your family.
XOXO,
Roberto
We miss you so much...I was really looking to see you these holidays and joke around with your incredible sense of humor...
Big hugs and my deepest condolences to Gary and to your family.
XOXO,
Roberto
Friday, October 28, 2011
Missing you....
Missing you, Uncle Roland. :( And thinking of you, Uncle Gary.
XOXO,
Erin, Roberto, and Luca
XOXO,
Erin, Roberto, and Luca
Guestbook from the Austin American Statesman Guest Book, Roland loved by so many people from all over...
With our deepest sympathies...in our thoughts and prayers...may Rolanod rest in peace. Love, The Elizarde Family
~ Debbie Elizarde, from Harlingen, Texas
Our warmest condolences to Gary Maitre and our prayers to the Chavez Family. May your fond memories bring some comfort.
- Rosa and John Randolph, from Austin, Texas
My condolences to the Chavez Family and to Gary Maitre. You can rest a little easier knowing that you are being watched from above by the newest angel in Heaven.
~ Bethina Delgado, Harlingen, Texas
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
~ sofia garcia, from Harlingen, Texas
My condolences to all the Chavez Families. I shared many Band memories with Rolando at Coakley & the Harlingen Cardinal Band. He will truly be missed! May the Lord comfort you through this trying time. My prayers are with you all.
~ Elizabeth (Betsy) De La Rosa Avila, from San Benito, Texas
My condolences to Gary Maitre and the Chavez family. May your memories give you solace in this time of loss.
- Kate Murphy
My Deepest condolences to you Gary Maitre and to the Chavez Family. I am so sorry for your loss of such a wonderful man. I am honored to have known Rolando and to have memories of him. You all are in my prayers as I lift you all up to our Lord.
~ Helen Castillo Jackson, from Plano, Texas
Our condolences to the Chavez family. We are thinking of you and will keep you all in our prayers.
~ Saldivar and Hodgson Family, from Harlingen, Texas
My sincere condolences to the Chavez family and to Gary. I am a friend and co-worker of Roland's and have known him about 12 years. I always thought of Roland as one of the finer people of the world. He always made me smile. He is greatly missed.
~ Yvonne Buonamici, from Austin, Texas
Dear Chavez Family, My heartfelt sympathies to all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I want you to know that I always have held you in the highest esteem. I know that you will carry on and you have my best wishes for the future. Sincerely, Coach Morley
~ Robert Morley, from Harlingen, Texas
Our deepest condolences to Gary Maitre and the Chavez Family. We are so very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
~ Clifford and Shaela Wilson, from Lockhart, Texas
Roland was a kind-hearted and loving man who will be missed by all who knew him. He was fortunate to have Gary Maitre in his life for 16 years, especially at the end when Gary stood by him faithfully and lovingly.
~ Ron Ozio, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Roland was a good friend and will be greatly missed here in Austin. My deepest condolences to his family and longtime partner, Gary Maitre.
~ Dennis Haney, from Austin, Texas
My condolences to the entire Chavez family, especially Salomon and Edith, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
~ Joey Leal, from Cypress, Texas
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
~ Chris Kretz, from Los Fresnos, Texas
Guestbook from the Austin American Statesman
My family and I felt blessed to have this wonderful man in our lives for 16 1/2 years. His humor, wit, kindness, and love will be forever missed. Our hearts ache for his devoted partner Gary and the Chavez family, especially Roland's mother and twin, Rod.
- Denise Gilden, from Buffalo, New York
Roland was one of those unforgettable people that left a smile on your soul...I will never forget him! My thoughts are with all of you because during this time...His B&T family in SF miss him greatly!
- Mary Azzopardi, from San Francisco, California
A kind and gentle soul, a wonderful and loving companion to Gary, and a true joy of a man. He will be missed and our family is sad to know of his sudden passing. Our hearts are broken with yours, Gary.
- Carmen Rivera-Worley, from Denton, Texas
I worked with Roland in San Francisco for over two years. Roland and I had a lot in common, as I am from Austin and went to college there. I used to call him "old man" because he was two months older than I; but I never thought he would leave our world so soon. Roland reminded me of my brothers: he liked to tease his women friends, but underneath it he was so gentle and protective of us. His passing has left a huge hole in my heart, and Gary and the Chavez family are in my thoughts and prayers.
- Ann Hardesty, from Oakland, California
My prayers are with all the people Roland loved. He seemed such a happy and loving individual; therefore, he was obviously loved and cared for by his family. We were all lucky to have such an individual touch our lives. Bless all of you!
- Kathleen Yeoman, from Austin, Texas
Roland was the best guy ever! All of us loved him and will miss him greatly.
~ Lisa Heino, from Austin, Texas
So sorry to hear about Rolando's passing. I have nothing but fond memories of Rolando from band. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
- Debbie (Veale) Kelly, from Harlingen, Texas
So sorry for this loss ... Rolando nothing but good times in band ... Those fun times and unique bonds are lifetime and I will never forget ... I can still see you playing French Horn ... GOD BLESS
~ JOE CORRAL, from DALLAS, Texas
You were and always be a very good friend and classmate, God bless you, rest in peace and you will be missed!!
- Elena Lopez Marcum (San Antonio, TX)
My deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.- Sonia Longoria, from Mission, Texas
AIDS Services of Austin
Morning,
Several people have asked about a charity they could donate to in honor of Roland and in support of Gary.
Before their move to San Fran, Gary and Roland were both active on the HIV Planning Council in Austin, so this is definitely a way to keep Roland alive, through supporting the important work of AIDS Services of Austin.
To donate go to:
http://www.asaustin.org
Love
Jess
Several people have asked about a charity they could donate to in honor of Roland and in support of Gary.
Before their move to San Fran, Gary and Roland were both active on the HIV Planning Council in Austin, so this is definitely a way to keep Roland alive, through supporting the important work of AIDS Services of Austin.
To donate go to:
http://www.asaustin.org
Love
Jess
Monday, October 24, 2011
Remembering Roland and Supporting Uncle Gary
I still can't really get my brain wrapped around Rolly not being here with us, at least not in the way we are used to recognizing. I have found myself comforted with the "answers" and lack of answers I have been giving Addison about Roland. While I don't fully know what I do and don't believe about certain spiritual questions, I have decided to embrace the childlike wonder and imagination and with Halloween around the corner, right now Roland is a friendly visitor in our home.
My sister and I are starting this blog in hopes it can be a way to remember Roland, to laugh and cry, and to keep him alive through a celebration and remembering of his gorgeous smile, funny ways and how he didn't take life too seriously. Seems important to follow his lead. He was silly and irreverent and I am trying to learn from that.
We also want this to be a way to express our support to Uncle Gary and to acknolwedge the wonderful relationship he and Rolly shared--- filled with love, humor, and romance.
We hope others will also share and post their thoughts, feelings and memories of Roland, as well as their support for Uncle Gary.
Roland, you are with us. Uncle Gary, we hope this blog connects people from all over, who love you and Roland, wrapping one HUGE ol' hug around you.
Much love,
Jess, JC, Addie and Samantha
My sister and I are starting this blog in hopes it can be a way to remember Roland, to laugh and cry, and to keep him alive through a celebration and remembering of his gorgeous smile, funny ways and how he didn't take life too seriously. Seems important to follow his lead. He was silly and irreverent and I am trying to learn from that.
We also want this to be a way to express our support to Uncle Gary and to acknolwedge the wonderful relationship he and Rolly shared--- filled with love, humor, and romance.
We hope others will also share and post their thoughts, feelings and memories of Roland, as well as their support for Uncle Gary.
Roland, you are with us. Uncle Gary, we hope this blog connects people from all over, who love you and Roland, wrapping one HUGE ol' hug around you.
Much love,
Jess, JC, Addie and Samantha
Using this Blog
There are a few different ways you can share your thoughts, memories, stories and pictures on this blog. You can simply comment on a blog posting or you can become an "author" on the blog, allowing you to upload pictures, create your own posts, etc.
If you would like to add pictures and posts, rather than just comment, please just email me at snelljohns@yahoo.com and I'll add you right away. There can be up to 100 authors for the blog.
Please spread the word about the blog!
rememberingrolandchavez.blogspot.com
Jessica
If you would like to add pictures and posts, rather than just comment, please just email me at snelljohns@yahoo.com and I'll add you right away. There can be up to 100 authors for the blog.
Please spread the word about the blog!
rememberingrolandchavez.blogspot.com
Jessica
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